How To Infiltrate A Woman's Social Circle
Written by Jonas Michels   
Sunday, 30 May 2010 07:57
I want to bring to your attention to an obstacle almost every guy slogging through the single scene trenches is forced to deal with - whether they're aware of it or not.
by JonasMichels


I want to bring to your attention to an obstacle almost every guy slogging through the single scene trenches is forced to deal with - whether they're aware of it or not.

It's rare to see attractive girls at bars by themselves. Usually, they come with friends in tow.

You may approach a sexy girl with ease. But if you don't know how to woo her friend, they'll drag her away from you.

Here's a simple way to infiltrate her social circle...

Ask the group for their opinion on something

If you do this right, you'll engage the whole group in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here's a simple example that comes from Neil Strauss

Ask the whole group, "Who lies more - men or women?"

Every one will put their two cents in.

Then ask, "Who do you think is more likely to cheat on their partners - men or women?"

The men from her social circle will argue, "Women." The women will argue, "Men."

This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?

You become the leader amongst her friends. Hence, you can take the conversation in any direction you want.

Now you can hit on the girl and her friends won't care. That's because they see you as part of her social circle.

Another important point: your energy level needs to be slightly higher than the group. Otherwise, you'll bring down their energy level and they'll get bored silly.

Likewise, if your energy level is too high, you'll jar them.

Either way, they'll ask you to leave.

Here is your homework: Think of five interesting questions you can ask groups of people. These are your conversational gambits.

The next time you're at a nightclub and see a woman you want to meet, infiltrate her social circle with one of these gambits. I think you'll be surprised how well it works.

About the Author:

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